Friday, March 31, 2006

Obasanjo's Alledged Third Term - Do Masses has anything to lose?


I had thought about this times without number that if indeed OBJ is ready to go for third term, from masses point of view, do we really have anything to lose?
I had equally found out that the only thing bestowed to the masses in democractic settings is what is readily available in terms of economy, social and infrastructures, which looking at this, i can give OBJ a pass mark.
I had ruminate over it that, those who are crying blue murder over his alledged third term are mostly those who stand to gain plenty things personally, and not that they love Nigerian so well except of course the human rights activist like Gani, Wole Soyinka et al who are genuinely fighting a deliberate alteration to the constitution.
Having said this, it goes on to show that, if those crying over a spill milk apart from the human rights activists came to power tomorrow, they cant do better than what OBJ has achieved. In this wise, let him continue if he wants to, afterall, we masses has nothing to lose. Besides, our votes or our voice can certainly not change anything in Nigerian politics. If the foregoing is what our vote and voice had turn to in naija democracy, and we have a leader who is failrly prone to the masses, why cant we just take our plight as it is rather than wait or support another government who may not even acchieve what OBJ has done so far.
In another development, OBJ seems to be the best option for us for now to move Nigerian forward since his stubborness seems to be working for us, and to think that it is only someone sturbborn but not brutal that can successfuly rule this country. OBJ had tackle the mafia behind the refineries, hence we have constant fuel supply, no more queues, he had taken over the mafia who always provide fig leaf for corrupt officials, and he had taken headlong the problem of NEPA which by next year 2007, we would have been producing the excess of megawatts of electricity that we need thereby dealing a great blow to the mafia of generators manufacturers and their numerous sabotage. OBJ is trying it is just that naija is so decay that only a stubborn president or (focussed) president can deliver us.
I as a writer has nothing to gain in his continued rule other than the impact felt by the masses, so i believe a leader we had known is better than a bunch who are eagerly waiting for him to vacate the government and start unleashing their own programme of how to enrich themselves again at the expense of the masses. OBJ seems to be very selective when choosing those who are to serve this country, and the awareness of corruption is spreading fast, who knows another incoming government may legalise it.
The argument that he is ammending the constitution to achieve this is untenable, because other countries that achieve greatness in their democracy has to pass through so many problems before they succeed. Besides, what is practicable in one country may not be tenable in Nigeria.
Pause and ponder if the masses actually have anything to lose if OBJ decide to gop for third term, after my own pondering, I put it to you that we dont have nothing to lose, therefore let us leave the ranting, the shouting and the opposition of the alledged 3rd term agenda to those who will gain something personally and individually and not opposing it from the masses point of view.

Thursday, March 9, 2006

When She is not around

I love my wife very much, she is everything to me, and this I noticed because I hardly do anything without taking her into consideration - decision wise. One thing I like to say today is that, I missed her the moment she is not around. I am the kind that depend solely on her culinary provisions, and with this in mind, I only take some snacks while in office, while I await eagerly and looking forward to a sumptuous meal after a days hard work at home. But nowadays, she is not around and I now depend on Mr Biggs or Tantalizer food for my dinner. I had some households who can cook as well, but I just dont have apetite for their food. Pause to ponder why most times our wife are around, we hardly know their worth or better still, we got carried away about how much they mean to us compare to when they are not around?

Joan of Big Brother Nigeria


Have you been following the trend at Big Brother Nigeria now showing on Channel 37 of DSTV? Well, it is the eye catcher now for Nigerians. The idle ones devote time to watch them for 20 hours a day, how boring it could be sometimes. Well, I am a fan of one of the housemate - Joan, I just dont know but I fell for her instantly. As the show goes on, I noticed that she behave naturally among the lots. As if that is not enough, she is in the middle of a relationship with Chinedu another male housemate.
Joan carry along well in the house, she virtually contribute mostly to every topic, she is the first to raise the issue of sex among the housemates. She was indeed discussing with Chinedu, whom they both have now seem to have gone far in some kind of starting a lovey dovey affair. Yesterday, I watched them cuddling and smoothing and from what I saw it is a matter of time before they start kissing and caresing each other.
To me, that kind of disposition between both of them shows that they are in the house to catch the fun of it. Believe me, if they continue like that, there is no way they can fake anything about their attitude for world to see. I mean that being in a kind of platonic friend and showing it to each other what love means, will sometimes make them unaware that the world is watching.
Pause to ponder, and watch Big Brother Nigeria and ponder on what I have written above, or better still come up with your own assessment of Chinedu and Joan.

Friday, March 3, 2006

When would I forget? Gone forever?


I married his Mother in 1992, we were both happy as a couple until the fifth columnists got into our relationships. We had him the following year. One thing led to the other and the marriage crashed. My son stayed with me when eventually I settled down in another marriage a year and half ago. He shows so many promises and myself had built my life around him. But alas! he died last November in an avoidable incidence. He was coming from school, and incompany of his friends decided to have a swim (as usual) in a damn. He drowned. I lived in a place where there is no one to help dispose off his body on my behalf. So I did it myself. I carried his limp body home, and the memory of those times still vibrate in my psyche. I lost him and it is very painful. I had been trying to live my life, but i found out it is very difficult. My son is such a boy who believe he can take care of himself. Life had been tough to him because of the separation I had with his mother, so he had this notion that he is clever and can take good care of himself. But, on this particular days, he learn the lesson the hard way, even though I had been warning him times without number that he is not clever enough.
Just when would this scar in my heart healed? He is thirteen years old, and day in day out, I still find it difficult to believe he is gone forever.
So I pause to ponder, Just when would I forget, and the reality dawning on me that he is gone forever? The truth is, I may never forget him, but the reality that he is gone forever is the pain I get each time I remember him.

Wednesday, March 1, 2006

Endless death

Pause to ponder when the endless death in Iraq will end? The truth is the death keeps piling up even though masterminded by their own kinsmen. One thing to ponder about is for how long will this endless death continue unabated. It is like the world felt nothing wrong in those death anymore as it seems to have been a normal occurence. To me, death is death, they are all the same whether it is happening in Iraq or it is happening in Europe. Endless death..... in Iraq, which country is going to be next? pause and ponder!