A careful look at occurrences in life, since most times we may be in a hurry to pause and ponder over them.
Monday, March 21, 2011
I Still Hate Politics
Monday, March 14, 2011
When Domestic helps are Dubious
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Is Facebook and Twitter killing Blogging?
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Taking Advantage of others
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Siverbirds Entertainment Centre Abuja and its Non Refundable Ticket Money Arrangements
If only there is an email address to forward this to, but I guess I have no alternative than to say it here.
The Silverbirds Entertainment Centre Abuja should call their Staff to order. I was in the company of my family to watch a nollywood movie, on Saturday, 24th April, 2010 at exactly 5pm and I ended up losing 3,000 Naira to their staff over zealousness. I obtained a ticket from one Ijeoma who actually asked me for how many people and I replied for my family. She gave me 2 ticket for myself and my wife. When we got to the gate of the movie theatre we were refused entry by a guy stationed there simply because we came along with our 5 year old son whom the guy classified as under-aged. Fine, What is the next thing to do, he ask us to go back to the box office on 3rd floor for a refund of our ticket money. When we got there, the staff we met, Ifeoma refused to refund our ticket money saying at the same time that it was the management policy. She wanted to apportioned blame as to whether in the first place we should not have been given a ticket for such a particular movie had she known we came in company of our 5 year old son who was busy playing around when I mentioned to her that I came in company of my family. I had to cut her short and told her that, that is not the issue, and that the issue is that me and my family came all the way from our house to relax, but we ended up losing our money and also what we came for. When she would not realise how important that was to us than her stupid management policy, I left thereby losing my 3,000 Naira in the process. The management should do something about this rigid stance of non refundable of ticket money especially where a genuine reasons is involved like mine. Talk of daylight Robbery!!!
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Who will call Abuja VIO to order?
Monday, September 7, 2009
World Cup Qualifier - Thank God Nigeria will not qualify
Thank God we didnt win, I will continue to pray that we do not qualify for South Africa. All is not well with this country, and I dont want football to hide our problem, moreso when our football itself is not in good order. Until Nigeria learn to do things right, we will continue to struggle, enough of all this fire brigade approach to all facets of our life.
Yeah, that is the point, our youth are all at home, because their lecturers are on strike, those who can afford it have withdrawn their children from the striking schools to private own university, whereas it is the same sets of people who make the public university go on strike that now own the private university. We deceived ourselves in this country a lot, tell me how can a private university survive, if there is no problem with the public university? Now, we all want our super eagles to qualify, we dont need any football to hide our sorrow, let not the football be our consoling factors everytime. For us to qualify, is to make it look like everything is well in this country. to qualify is to let the NFA add that to their achievement, as if all is well with our football, to qualify is to let the government of the day believed that we are doing things right. God, Please dont let us qualify for the world cup for the second time in a row.
Take it from the players point of view. We all know what will happen to them if while playing for this country, something happen to them. But because, the country is not in a good state, they can never give in their best, whereas, when it come to their club assignment, they put in everything. So what is the cause of that? because so many things is wrong with this country. A clear case is that of Samuel Okwaraji, and of course until recently, and i dont know if it is true, Nigeria just redeemed her pledge to the players who won African cup of nations which nigeria won last in 1980 - can you beat that? Ponder over that!!!
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Agony of lack of power in Nigeria
Ever ponder when the power supply problem in Nigeria will end? Perhaps it is not going to be in this generation. It is getting worse and worse. At my estate, we don’t even expect power anymore. We all depend on burning fuel on our generators.
To keep your generators running, if you are the type like me who always stays indoor and prefer to have power constantly, then be prepare to budget a large amount of your hard earned money on acquisition of fuel. To get the fuel in filing station is another problem, you need to pray it is not a period where there is scarcity of fuel, less you are in for another problem. If there is no fuel scarcity, then you have little problem acquiring fuel for your gen sets, but if there is, then you will be required to bring your gen set to filing stations before they can sell to you. If you prefer to buy in jerry cans, then be ready to part with extra cash to the fuel attendants.
A case of mine in question, I have 4 generators. You will ponder how I am managing fueling all the four, and having them serviced. I tell you it is not that easy. However, the secrets behind them is that, 3 of them consume less fuel, because they are small power generators, while I have one big one that have capacity to carry all the loads. Here is the idea, I will put on the small ones in daylight just to power the fan and the TVs, and put on the Big one at night to cater for all the bulbs and put the fridge and freezers on. When it get to 12 midnight, I will put it off, and put on the small ones again to power the fans and other security lights till morning.
Ever ponder when this wahala will end? The whole thing looks a mirage to me. God save this country from the small few that are taking us to ransom.
On a final note, ever pause to ponder that, the present Head of Nigerian Communications Commission may as well be drafted to the power sector, who knows, he may revolutionise the industry too just as he did with Communication sector. Just pondering…..
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
It is only in Nigeria
I read it in Daily Vanguard the other day, that Police in Kwara State, Nigeria arrested a goat for Armed Robbery. The Police have concrete evidence, that the Goat actually took part in a bid to disposses someone of his Mazda Car. It is only in Nigeria that such thing can happen. I wonder what a LAPD would thing about such an incidence.
It is only in NIgeria that you will work diligently to move Nigeria forward, you are the toast of the masses when you are in charge of your duty, but, because some people are not ready for your revolutionary approach to move Nigeria forward, they use every available means in their disposal to rubbish your hardwork. Mallam El-Rufai and Nuhu Ribadu are good example, Engr. Ndukwe of NCC is also getting in the saddle right as at the time of writing this.
It is only in Nigeria that the Government will anounce a reduction in price of Petrol from 70 to 65 Naira and the marketers will refuse to adjust their pump price. But when Government threaten to enforce the new price, you discovered that there is scarcity of fuel all over the place. It is also in Nigeria that you will witness such a situation whereby the marketer will be reluctant to adjust their pump price any time there is a reduction in price, but are quick to adjust their pump price any time there is increase in pump price.
But wait, is it only in Nigeria? Just ponder along with me!!!
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Just Pondering.....
Let me see if I can pause to ponder on past events. The first is the Obama as the president elect. I fo rone is not excited with him being a black man. I want a real black man in the mode of th eblack of Chris Rock, Beenie Man, I mean real black not half black or half white. But since half bread is better than none, I guess we will all have him as a black man.
As for the victory of Adams Oshiomhole, has anyone pause to ponder when how long it will take before we started hearing impeachment song? This is to be expected because his party does not enjoy majority in the state house of assembly.
How about the missing satellite in the space? I wonder and ponder how come the unthinkable always happen in Nigeria. It has come to further prove that nothing works in Nigeria. Had it not been the Satellite was located in the space, one would have been tempted to suggest it was tampered with by Nigerians or sabotaged by the other operator of satellite companies just to continue to enjoy the monopoly. By the way, how come none of the DTH in Nigeria has signify interest in the Nigcomsat even ebfore its dissappearance in the space. Or better still, may be they use Otmopo, Ogun, or Juju to destroy it right here in Nigeria. You dont want to believe me, have I not said it earlier on that nothing is impossible in Nigeria?
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Ever Ponder what today is?
also use this opportunity to thank those who find time to visit this blog, your visits is what spur me on to update it regularly, while your comments is the tonic I need to know that you really appreciates what am doing. I thank you all.
Monday, October 6, 2008
BBA 3 - Morris and Takondwa Cheats
http://www.4shared.com/file/65929774/a809ad2c/bba3.html
Friday, August 8, 2008
Who will fights against Corruption in Nigeria
Whilst I dont need to go into full details of their travails as we are all aware of that, truth remains that those two were singled out for vendetta. El-Rufai was as at the time of writing this, being barred from holding public office again, while Ribadu was removed unceremoniously and subsequently demoted for daring to step on their "toes".
To further prove my point, Dr Charles Soludo is beginning to feel the power of those politicians too in his seat as the CBN Governors. It is just a matter of time before he also pay the price of having to deal with those "politicians" by withdrawing the licence of the banks of some of them. thereby stepping on "powerful toes". The heat is on.
Has anyone ponder why NAFDAC Director Chief Akunyili was not even a subject of their war of Vendetta, I guess because her own area of war she engaged in wasnt an area where politicians ventured into, or else, she herself must be feeling the heat by now.
I guess I may have to come up later with various ways of how to fight against corruption in Nigeria, now that we know what the "Politicians" will do to those who step on their "toes".
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Mexican Telenovela Second Chance and AIT Television
This attitude of AIT is now unbecoming of an electronic media one was beginning to think will lead the revolution of representing the true image of Nigeria in International media community. This singular act by AIT, if they dont realise it, usually spoils a day for some family who from experience must make the 9.00pm time to catch the Soap. You can imagine the disappointment one usually gets on such occasions, especially when you had to sacrifice so many things to meet the time of the Soap transmission.
Now that AIT is now on Nigerian Stock Exchange as a public quoted company, they should at least be more public oriented in their TV programmes, such an unwarranted repetitions of episodes of Soap without due apology or due notice does not befit such a progressive media house like AIT. Chief Aleogho Dokpesi should do something. Haba!
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
When you have to beg for Money
It happened to me last night, and I cant but ponder over it, whether I was the first to do such things, most especially when the amount involved was a paltry sum, and I mean a paltry sum.
Before you blow the trumpet and take the news to a Radio or a TV stations, let me quickly add that, I did it for my soon to be 3 years old son.
The scenario perhaps was the second, and the amount involved is always a paltry sum of 50. The first was 50k and I mean fifty kobo, while that of yesterday was just 50 Naira. The first was way back in the early 90s when I was stranded along the road, even though I have money in the office, but I do not have on me, so I ask a passer-by to assist me with the sum for transportation.
That of yesterday happened when I need to buy a toy gun for my son in a supermarket. Did I hear you say, I should have abandoned the purchase of the ordinary toy gun? Well, I cant because of the event of the previous day. We (myself, my wife and our son) go for shopping, he insisted he wanted a toy gun, but I have other idea of not wanting him to be playing with gun at his age. I thought he bought my objection, but by the time we enter the car back home, he registered his protest so much that, he kept on crying and angry at my seeming indifference to his plight. It took a lots of cajoling after about over an hour to calm him down. His eyes is red shot with his registered protest of cries. So I made a promise to buy him one the second day.
I don t have enough money on my wallet to buy the exact type he wanted, I am short of 50 naira only. So I ask a fine gentleman for a raise, telling him I just have to get home with the toy in my hand. He understands instantly, I guess he has them at home too.
So, Ever ponder for once when you have to resort to begging?
Monday, July 7, 2008
Dubai
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Kanu - The 13th Greatest Arsenal Players of all time
Kanu who is the most decorated African Footballer play for Arsenal between 1999 and 2004 where he won 2 FA cups and 2 Barclays Premier league the last he won was in 2004 when Arsenal goes the whole season unbeaten. Of Particular note of his magic moments in arsenal was when he scored a 17 minute hat-trick, which enable Arsenal win a derby with Chelsea in 1999. I is a magic moments of Kanu career that lovers of Kanu alike will tell its story to unborn Nigerian generations. I still jealously keep the video in my archive.
Please read more on Arsenal's web site http://www.arsenal.com/article.asp?thisNav=News&article=492950
Friday, June 27, 2008
Still on my Dubai Trip
Ever ponder why what type of troubles that green booklet could land you? I mean the Nigerian passport!!!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
My First Time
The journey itself is strenuous, may be because it is my first time, but, all in all it was worth an experience. At least, i broaden my horizon. I also have the first hand experience of the behaviour of Nigerians outside Nigerian shore. There was an urgent need for me to trace an earlier hotel I had checked in before because I was paired with a Nigerian I had never met before all my life. So when I secured another hotel, I need to park my belongings to the new hotel, and all efforts to trace the hotel prove abortive. Whilst asking around, directions given to me is not sufficient enough to lead me to the hotel. I then met a Nigerian lady who seems not to bother about my plight because she is in a hurry. I guess it was her first time in Dubai too, because she seems to have bought something and forgot it there, not knowing that in Dubai, unlike Nigeria, you can even met your goods you forgot at any shop 3 months after. Anyway, she can be of help, and I continue the agony of locating my new hotel. Meanwhile, as I continue to meandered through the seeming identical roads and building, am using various signs to notice my way around in case i need to get back to my new hotel.
At long last, I met another Nigerians, one male and female, speaking Yoruba while on the mobile phone, I knew I have found my saviour since they can speak my language. I quickly spoke to them in Yoruba, and before you say Jack Robinson, they ignore me. Sensing that they might thought I was trying to ask for financial assistance, I quickly hold the business card of the hotel in front of them that, I am trying to trace this hotel, with the same unconcerned approach, one of them just point a direction to me without proper explanation.
With some little efforts and after wasting a lot of my time, I finally got the hotel, pack my belongings and left for the new hotel. As I was about to step into the new hotel, guess whom I saw? The two Yoruba Nigerians who couldn't offer assistance. I just accuse them in Yoruba and left them there. But can you blame them? Myself too cannot stay in the same hotel room with another Nigerians I had never met in my life.
As for those who had been in this for long, is this the mentality of Nigerians whilst abroad? I continue to ponder!!!
Monday, June 9, 2008
Who Owns a woman's Breast? Child or Hubby?
You cannot claim ownership of a land you did not buy. With that in mind the ownership of the mammary gland is not in question, but with special arrangement, the landlord can allow the tenant temporary use of his facility for a period of time, after which the original owner can take back his property.
There is always a sharing formula which will satisfy all interested parties. It boils down to arrangement timing and due consideration.
The breast to an extent belongs to the husband because once the dowry has been paid, the woman automatically belongs to the man. Since the breast is the organ on a woman’s chest which produces milk after pregnancy, it also can be said that it belongs to the child because after delivery, the child tends to feed from it, thereby marking the man the caretaker of the breast, for it (baby) takes charge of the breast for a period of time before handing it over to the man, who also takes charge for sometime, then handing it back to the baby (another offspring )
Due to the rotation of the woman’s breast from the husband to the baby, it is perceived that it (the breast) belongs to both, except for the fact that the baby, at a certain age stops feeding from the breast and the woman also stops giving birth, which then leaves her breast at the mercy of the husband as the rightful owner.
God, in his wisdom and mightiness created woman out of man. Every part of her body, including the offspring from her are part of the components that make the man, the head in the home.
The child of the woman, at the time of birth, can exclusively be the “owner” of the mother’s breast as the breasts remain the source of food, for growth and strength.
However, the man of the house, who owns the woman could play with any part of his wife’s body including the breast, as it will not hurt her but for pleasure !sake! there is a time in life when the child and the husband would no longer acknowledge the pleasure of this thing called “breast” but it would be regarded as part of Gods creation in a woman to edify her.
It is very clear that the husband owns the breast. The husband is in charge of the woman’s breast right from the inception of their relationship to the marriage level. Any time the husband wants to make love he must start with the breast to arouse the woman before sex takes place. Apart from the fact that husband sucks the breast before, during and after making love, he had paid dowry or bride price for the woman, the child only sucks the breast at a particular period of time between 0-2years but for the husband no limitation till old age. Therefore, the husband is the rightful owner of the breast since he is the beginner and the finisher.
I believe the breast is owned by the husband and the child respectively. The husband owns the breast during sexual activity by the couple. The breast which is part and one of the most arousing sexual organ of the female is enjoyed by the husband during sexual intercourse thereby making the breast the sole property of the husband at that point in time.
Also, the breast is owned by the child, when the woman puts to bed and starts breast feeding, because it is the child’s way of survival as a bady. Both husband and child needs the breast to survive, thereby the breast belongs to the child and also belong to the husband who is the over-all owner of the breast because he is the husband to the woman and the dowry payer, and also the father to the child.
The breast is located around the chest and they are in different sizes. It main purpose is to produce milk for the babies from day one to at least when the baby is one year old. Also, the breast serves emotional need to the husband as he can suck, fiddles and play with the breast during love making. As a matter of fact, it serve as a tool to lure or excite the woman for sex.
Whatever may happen one will not fail to conclude that the baby owns the breast because a necessary need is more important than emotional need. The growth and survival of the baby depends on how well it is breast feeded.
It is absurd for anyone to think or say that the breast of the woman belongs to the husband. This assumption is extraneous to say the least. The woman is of course created by God, the grand designer. It is opponent that the breast is the basic symbol of the female personality. Aid specifically the breast is so designed by God for the woman to suckle the infant until it is old enough to take solid food. For instance the baby friendly hospital initiative encourage mothers to breast feed their babies exclusively on breast milk for at lest 6 months to 2years.
The breast as we all know also called “boobs” is one of the parts of the human body found on the chest both on the left and right side respectively. Scientifically, it contains the mammary gland that secretes the milk used to feed infants. If breast were only for feeding, why would woman want to show off their voluptuous cleavages? Why would they want to flaunt it? Why would low-cut dresses and tops be produced? now the question arises, who owns the breast, the husband or the child? Some hold the options that it belongs to both the man and the child and that is a fair statement but truly, the husband has full ownership of the breast and does the child the favour of having a taste of it for a while.
It is through breast feeding that the child ends to build a strong relationship and love for his mother but that does not mean he owns the breast. Breast feeding is for a while but for the man cuddles it for a long time. So, who really owns the breast? Definitely, it is the man when a man marries a woman, he owns her full body and even the bible say so that the wife dose not have anything over her own body.
The husband is the owner of the breast and the breast are part of the body that make a man happy and live a long life. A child just need the mothers breast just for growth and development, after 5 to 10 years old the mother breast even irritate the child because the breast is not permanently for the child but permanently for the husband, even the Bible confirm it, that every part of the woman body belongs to the man until death do the both of them part. The husband can only allow the little child to use the breast milk for growth after that the owner takes over it property.
The husband owns the breast because according to the scriptures, he is the head and lord of the woman. Therefore, he is lords over everything about her, including her body which of course include the breast. Every man in the arms of a woman, feels like a baby and begins to posses a tender nature. Because every man likes petting and their basic requirements is food, love, and sex. Nothing else can be more interesting about these three if the breast is being secluded. A man is to love his wife and wife in return is to be totally submissive to him. One vital part of woman’s body that she can use to attack the man is the breast. That is why it is referred to as “ATTACK”
The man is always the owner of the breast, because after marriage, it is cleared that the man has been given the right of ownership to every aspect of the woman. Therefore the man decide from that point whether the ownership can be transferred to the child by completely abandoning the breast for the child due to wear and tear
In it entirety the breast belong to the man, because the man is the one who gives the woman the child and even pressure the woman to make sure that the child is fed on breast milk.
There is just one answer to the question, although it is individualistic but I take my answer and stand from the bible. The husband owns the breast and every other parts of the wife’s body. Without begging the question. The breast is a part of the body and your husband own your entire body. Woman needs to understand that once your are married to a man, you are under obligation as a matter of commandment from God to be submissive to your husband in all including your body. There is no argument and that is just the truth. I must not fail to mention also that the breast or body of a woman is not owned by boyfriend, fiancĂ© or any other man but your legally wedded husband!
The husband is the owner of the breast, because the husband is the one that will play and touch the breast, even if is the child that will suck the breast but it is for a period of time. And when the child grows up he/she doesn’t have access to the breast again unlike the husband that have access where ever and when ever he wants it.
According to the bible, it stated that the woman should be submissive to her husband, that include everything in the woman’s body even her breast, so the bible didn’t say the woman should be submissive to the child, it is just for the child to suck for a period of time, thereafter, it belong to the husband.
Men are perpetual suckers, at infant age, they own their mothers breast for only a short period of time. The faithful once looks forward to their wife’s own, while the unfaithful go around grabing any one within their reach.
Back to the question, the husband legally owns his wife’s breast because he is both the husband and the first baby of the house.
On the arrival of the children, he shares the breast with them in rotation. The breast goes round and rotate back to the husband who manages it till God knows when. But legal or no legal the cause of the breast determines who owns it, after all, when there was no husband nor child, the breast was owned by the carrier.
Hmmmm, A friend of mine have this to say on the subject, hear him - "I guess men actually own the breast of their woman. How many child would own a woman breast if we go by the argument of a child being the owner, does it mean if a woman breast fed 4 child, all the child owns the boobs? Besides, how many breast does a child wants to own, when he/she grows up, he own the boobs of his wife, or if a woman, own her own boob? I beg, my wife breasts is mine anyday".
Ever ponder what length women and men can go on this subject?





























